Devotion to Authenticity

        Fort de Chartres (pronounced “Fort Charters,” as Cairo, Illinois, is “Care-oh” and New Madrid, Missouri, is “New Mad-rid”) is a reconstructed French colonial fort, in Illinois, 40 miles due south of the St. Louis Arch. It was built in its durable form in 1753 to govern and house soldiers for Upper […]

The Long Goodbye to a Sofa That Would Never Die

        There are pieces of furniture that serve their purpose admirably but temporarily. Then there are pieces of furniture that, over time, appreciate in value so well you think nothing of mistaking them for a family member. Such was the beloved status of my late, great, golden-brown, Danish sofa, consecrated in the […]

Standing at the Edge of Two Worlds

      Over dinner last week, a friend said she could not stand hearing President Donald Trump’s name anymore. He tries to be a king. Another friend across the table shrugged, “Well, at least the stock market was doing fine. Maybe people should pay attention to that as well. My 401(k) is great.” The […]

The Lie I Tell Myself Daily

    “What do you lie to yourself about?” my friend wanted to know. I floundered. Tried to escape the question. Then took a minute to realize I knew the answer. “I think I’m patient,” I blurted. And as I said the word, the full truth of it sank in. The only reason I am […]

Dig Out Your Crystal Ball

    A friend of mine is a little witchy, a little woowoo. She gets “feelings” before something happens. Me, I roll my eyes. Something is always going to happen. The claim is too easy. Deep down, though, I am jealous. Trapped inside my head since, oh, third grade, I have no gut feelings. No […]

Of Living Alone

      “Of course you have to take the phone to the bathroom with you when you shower,” a friend told me. “In case something happens.” “What?” I said. Until my younger son went away to college two years ago, I had never lived alone except for a year in college. Even then, I […]

The “Six-seven!” Phenomenon Taunts Slang to Make Sense

        I remember well my first father-son conversation about girlfriends because it soon devolved into an argument about slang. “Why limit yourself to girls you only think at first glance are foxy?” he asked, substituting my straightforward description of “good looking.” “Foxy girls are not the be-all-end-all,” he continued, substituting another of […]

Are Flash Mobs Over or Just Ruined?

    A friend texts me a video of pianist Julian Cohen. A kid  asks him to play a certain song, then startles everyone in the restaurant with his gorgeous voice. A sucker for any spontaneous musical performance or revelation of young talent, I ignore all the other directions my fingertips should be flying on […]

Anselm Kiefer: Becoming the Sea

    You have probably walked into the Saint Louis Art Museum’s grand Sculpture Hall before. But you have never walked in and seen it like this. Five new works by Anselm Kiefer, each the height of a three-story building, surround you. They glow dark, gold leaf vibrating against rich blacks and a shimmering sea […]